you matched. now meet up.

Millions of people connect daily on dating apps, only to have the conversation die in the "What are you up to?" phase. The friction of coordinating time, place, and intent kills the connection.

when&where is a utility tool that bridges the gap between digital chemistry and physical reality. We are not a discovery app. We are the scheduling layer for the ecosystem.

We are complementary. We don't compete for attention; we convert intent into action.

Our philosophy

"Software should be a utility, not a toll booth."

We exist in a digital ecosystem built by incumbents who profit by keeping you lonely and engaged. They sell your data and optimize for your screen time, not your real-world connections. We are building the antidote.

when&where is a tool, not a trap. We charge an aggressively nominal fee — literally the price of a coffee — not because we have to, but because it aligns our incentives with yours. You are our customer, not our product.

There are no ads, no data brokers, and no investors pushing us to manufacture addiction. We make money by helping you meet people, not by preventing it.